Son dating the wrong girl
What most men don’t realize is that facing the possibility that they are holding onto to the wrong girl and being honest with themselves is far greater than being in an unhealthy relationship.
It is quite time consuming and painful to try and float a sinking ship that will inevitably hit the bottom of the ocean.
VERY OFTEN, men make the mistake of not moving on for several reasons, regardless of their fear of commitment: 1. It is very painful and frustrating to the ego to find out that the person you are with is not as good as you once thought.
From this, the mind will make rationalizations for her unwanted behavior because it can’t or won’t face the possibility that she might not be right for you. The fear of becoming lonely and single again is too much to bear This is a neediness issue.
When a similar opportunity arises we often try to make up for our past.
We believe by doing the “right” thing this time around we will somehow be able to let go of some of this guilt and shame from our mistakes.
You need someone to make you feel happy or fill that gap inside of yourself.
My take on helping others is this: I will help anyone that truly wants to change.Trying to make up for past mistakes Guilt and shame get associated with painful mistakes.It’s a human tendency to “punish” ourselves in an attempt to not make the same mistakes twice.The irony is that they are making the same mistake by holding onto the wrong girl. Not wanting to hurt the woman’s feelings Face it, break ups hurt but dragging a bad relationship out will hurt much worse.
Bad relationships come down to incompatibility between two people.The first week or two will be amazing and the girl will seem almost perfect but this is before her pain body comes out to play.