Love and dating in islam
Why do you fein to go through all these meetings as if you actually love that person, and you’re not even considering being in a proper relationship with him/her. I say it’s Allah that brought you a test like He does to everyone and so you should deal with it.‘There’s no where in the Quran where it says ‘dating is haram’”Oooooh very clever indeed.I will tell you the exact place where the Quran says it is and this will form the basis to why dating is not allowed: This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them.They meet the person they like, a few outings, they get to know each other better then finally decide to have illegal sex that is a fahisha or a dirty thing and you can’t control these urges and even science proves it.I don’t want to get into the details of Islamic marriage but you can get to know the person you’re going to marry prior to the marriage and that is not done in secrecy, but the family members know you’re going out with them there or with the members of the family present there or with a mahram person (meaning a person who you can’t marry be with you) or just be somewhere around the place where you the two people are meeting.You are getting older and this young man’s circumstances are not improving; you are not marrying him and you are not marrying anyone else. You should realize that one of these men who have proposed marriage may be more religiously committed and righteous than that young man, and there may be far greater love with him than there is between you and that young man. Usually, we love for the sake of Allah and we hate for the sake of Allah.I felt that our love started going in the direction, he agreed to this feeling, and respected my opinion.
Hence you did well to cut off contact with this young man, and we hope that you will stop corresponding too, because correspondence is one of the greatest doors to corruption that have been opened for people nowadays. But if it is because of mixing or looking or haraam conversations, then it is also haraam. Or a woman may hear that a man is of good character and virtuous and knowledgeable and religiously committed, so she may want to marry him.*Thanks for the A2A lol and I’m finally answering my best friend’s question*Dating is something that’s prevalent throughout the West,we see it in movies, songs related to it, and sometimes it occurs that we too want to go out on a date with someone and just ‘try’ it, experience the magic or whatever aura of romance.We make dares in which we tell people to ask someone out on a date but as Muslims are we aware of what we’re going to get into ?We have been in this love relationship for one year.
I know this person and his family, and they know us well as well.I do not remember that he called me more than once.