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I wouldn't call the experience "soul crushing", but just plain bad.
Sure, I'm not a sportsman or a rich millionaire (yet) and I hate social media, but I really don't think I look bad, I've got a master in applied physics and if you meet me irl I think I usually come off as fairly confident, funny, very open, as a genuine nice guy and maybe only sometimes a bit weird.
I've been on and off Internet dating for the past seven years.
My experience is pretty much the same as yours, minus #4.
Not even a "go fuck yourself", even that would make me feel better than just blank nothingness.
I honestly think I'll just have to go back to chatting up girls in clubs and bars and jeez is that a lot of effort and money and time, but at least you get your answers straight up. I joined okcupid two years ago if you're looking to meet someone genuine online is not the way.
none of that is acceptable to me so I'd rather find out ASAP than to go on even one date.
Even when it starts off better than "hii" or my least favorite "hey beautiful" usually within two or three exchanges it has degraded to single word replies.From my point of view, having online conversations with someone I've never met is pretty pointless.I (and you) am losing at least 60% of the communication because of the channel. causes each person in the exchange to invent the other person as opposed to actually getting to know them.I think too many people are still searching even when you think the relationship is starting to get serious. When I first joined a dating site 5 years ago, there were some cool ass people.
There's nothing really wrong with Internet dating, the problem is how people use it. I was younger and dumber back then and didn't know how to "close the deal" or how to communicate well. Now there's not many attractive people, and the majority of girls are super easy just looking for a hookup or are just there to boost their own self esteem. But a challenge for a girl with her head on straight with any sort of dignity or self respect. I haven't been on one in a year and a half till lately, and man even in that timeframe it's dropped in quality.
The solution, in my mind at least, is to find someone with a profile that sparks interest, express interest via message, answer any particular questions deemed important, and meet for a cup of coffee or other beverage!