I had wounded myself to get the goods on a man who was not respecting me.
However, it can be time-consuming, especially if your guy is computer-savvy.
If you have a gut feeling that your husband is in the market for an affair and all other communication attempts have failed, it may give you peace of mind to check whether he has registered at any online places to look for other women to date.
This is especially true if he has another computer that you can't access.
He may limit himself to just checking his email at home, not actually browsing profiles, so you don't find anything obvious on the computer. This is especially helpful if your guy is the type to clear the temp and history files after he is done surfing the Web.
Register at the website yourself, if you find one that he's likely a member of.
You may need to enter a credit card to search in depth, but many online dating sites offer free browsing of profiles.
Just because he receives email from a website does not necessarily mean that he's a member looking for an affair. This is why you need to check if he's written back to anyone or been browsing the site itself.
Check the temporary Internet files and history log on your computer. When you're trying to catch a cheating man via the Internet, you have to look for more subtle clues as well.
You can call the credit-card company and ask for specifics, if you are authorized on the account to do so.
You can also confront your husband about it, asking what exactly the charge was for.
I then unceremoniously broke up with him in a text. Sometimes the end result is to receive financial gain, gifts or simply attention. I was operating under the mindset that after all, it was I not him who had been scammed for nearly six months when he was obviously seeing and meeting other women behind my back.